In my dream, I (33f) and my fiancé (32m) we'll call him D, decided to find a 3rd person (25f), we'll call her B. She was younger and skinnier than me as I am a larger lady. So one night D told me he couldn't come home.. I didn't really question it until the next night. Me, D and B were all together, and I decided to make a move on B (thinking D would join in) and kissed her, things got heated and I ended up with my head between her legs, whilst I was on all 4's. I thought then, that D might take advantage and take me from behind but he wouldn't come near, and was sat away from us just playing on his phone apparently oblivious to what was going on and B's moans of pleasure. When I realised he wasn't bothered I stopped as I found it a turn off. B was meant to be for us to share together... As I was getting cleaned up I heard B and D giggling and talking about "last night", and D saying it's good I got "my turn" tonight. When I questioned him further, D told me he spent last night with B and they had sex and whatever else with each other. This hurt me and I felt quite upset, and D couldn't understand why I was crying. It just felt like he had time for her, but not for me, specially when I was "wide open" for him to join in with us and he didn't. I know it was just a dream but it's been playing on my mind all day.
Dreams can be complex and the interpretation can vary based on personal experiences and emotions. Overall, this dream may reflect feelings of insecurity, jealousy, and a fear of being left out or not valued in a relationship. The presence of a third person in the dream may symbolize feelings of inadequacy or comparison to others, especially in terms of physical appearance.
The actions in the dream, such as initiating intimate contact with the third person and feeling rejected by your fiancé, could indicate a desire for attention, validation, or reassurance in the relationship. The lack of response from your fiancé and his focus on the third person may symbolize feelings of neglect or being overlooked in real life.
The dream may also highlight concerns about trust and communication within the relationship, as evidenced by the miscommunication and emotional disconnect between you and your fiancé in the dream. Your emotional response in the dream, feeling upset and crying, suggests unresolved emotions or fears that may need to be addressed in waking life.
Overall, this dream could be a reflection of underlying insecurities or concerns in your relationship that need to be acknowledged and discussed with your partner. It may be beneficial to open up a dialogue about your feelings and experiences to deepen understanding and strengthen the relationship.